Saturday, October 10, 2009

I feel insecure about my dark skin?

It never hit me that I was dark skinned till like third grade when I got teased, and what hurt even more, was when my family members said I was dark, ans almost everybody in my family is light skinned. My body is not that dark, its just my face. All right I take alot of pictures, and I like the way I look in them. But the only time I feel good is when im in alot of light cause when im not my skin is dark, and I don't look as good when im dark, or atleast I don't think I do. But now im feeling really insecure, cause every time i go somewhere im looking at other peoples skin tones, wishing I was that lighter skin tone. Since I take pictures and my camera has flash My skin color is lightened, and girls are really crazy over me, this also happens in a well lit area, so if im in a dark room most girls don't notice me, and when im in a room with a lot of light they do, so i don't know if you guys no what im going through, but help me out
I feel insecure about my dark skin?
I know EXACTLY how u feel! I was always dark-skinned and I was very insecure. I still am at times. Society has always gave the impression that dark skinned ppl could not be attractive. I am still learning but someone told me that when you act insecure on the OUTSIDE people see it. Try being more confident. I was teased by everyone, even family. I had the same feelings as u. If u r attracting people to u then it is YOU. Work on it. I am and believe me, it isn't easy. By the way, u didn't mention ur age. The sooner u work on, the better u will be. Good luck!
I feel insecure about my dark skin?
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Reply:I wish no one would have made you feel insecure about yourself because you're beautiful. Nobody should ever make you feel like you're not. If girls don't notice you because of your dark skin, but in the light they do.. then just wait till the right one comes along and she should accept you no matter what. I know it sounds so cliche, but it's true. Is this just a matter of not being able to obtain a girl? Or is it a deep lingering hurtfulness of not being lighter skinned? You just have to come to accept that this is who you are and be glad. It's way easier said than done, but don't you think there are millions of people like you out there making the best of what they got? Why worry about how dark or light your skin is when tomorrow it could be all over and the time you spent thinking about how you don't like how you look you could have actually accomplished something or done a thing you've always wanted to do. Good luck. I hope I helped you...
Reply:Alrighty then... let's not try to be like


Micheal Jackson....................................


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